Summer of Self

  • Read-Along,  Summer of Self

    Mrs Darling’s Lament

    [This is a post for The Time-Traveler’s Wife Summer Read-Along – please add your link to your Summer Read-Along post in the box below, leave comments and join in the conversation!] ‘Goodness, Clare, why in the world would you want to marry such a person? Think of the children you would have! Popping into next week and back before breakfast!’ I laugh. ‘But it will be exciting! Like Mary Poppins, or Peter Pan.’ She squeezes my hands just a little. ‘Think for a minute, darling: in fairy tales it’s always the children who have the fine adventures. The mothers have to stay at home and wait for the children to…

  • Self-Care,  Self-Discovery,  Summer of Self

    5 (Early Day) Summer of Self Lessons

    So, the family has now flown to Australia, and I am sitting in a very quiet apartment with none of the usual hustle or bustle that ordinarily surrounds me. It’s been an interesting couple of days since they left, and I wanted to share with you some of what I’ve learned in my Summer of Self so far… 1. I have no idea how to do a food shop for one person, let alone how to cook for one. I visited the supermarket today to buy supplies as my kitchen looks like it belongs more to old Mother Hubbard than to myself. And I must admit that I got a…

  • Read-Along,  Summer of Self

    And So Our Journey Begins..

    It’s hard being left behind. The opening words of The Time-Traveler’s Wife sit heavy in my heart. As I explained in a previous post, I’m usually the one leaving on a jet plane – heading off to international conferences, navigating my way on various modes of transport to trawl through university library archives. I am never the one left behind. Until tomorrow, that is. Tomorrow my most special people will be held tight in my arms. I’ll breathe in the scent of their hair. I’ll brush my cheek across their cheeks. I’ll feel the swell of their inhale and exhale as it reverberates through their frames. We’ll cry, we’ll kiss…

  • Summer of Self

    Departure Gate Goodbyes

    The time when my family flies halfway around the world is drawing closer and closer. In fact, time seems to be doing that funny thing that it does – speeding up to meet a dreaded date, like an excited labrador who has spotted its owner across the other side of the park. And it doesn’t seem to matter how much I pull on its lead, time just refuses to slow down. So now we’re getting into those logistical conversations about adaptor plugs and check-in times and those silly wee padlocks that you buy for holidays, and then promptly lose the keys on your return. And the question that keeps raising…

  • Self-Care,  Self-Discovery,  Summer of Self

    Introducing My Soft Animal (…to Myself)

    So the conversation went a little something like this… Me: I’m so tempted to move in with my mum for a week over the summer. Lovely Friend Lea (LFL): Do that then! Me: I always feel good after I’ve stayed there for a few days. LFL: A little r&r with your mum would be a great way to treat yourself a little. Me: Yeah – she offered before, and I was thinking no, cos I felt like a wimp – I felt like it would be running away from being independent and standing on my own two feet. LFL: And it’d be the “easy route”, right? Lea knows me so…